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Relationship tips: Reasons why being emotionally available is a green flag and makes all the difference

Signs of emotional availability: Being in a relationship means truly investing in it. If someone isn’t emotionally involved, they might just be pretending to connect while keeping their heart guarded. Here’s why emotional availability is key to a thriving relationship.

August 29, 2024 / 12:10 IST
Emotional availability means being reliable and consistent, ensuring that what they say and do is in harmony. This reliability prevents confusion and helps in maintaining a strong, dependable relationship (Image: Canva)

Constantly waiting for your partner to open up about a concern, only to find them retreating into silence or deflecting the conversation, might leave you feeling isolated, unsure of where you stand, and frustrated by the lack of connection. When one partner is emotionally distant, it creates a barrier to genuine intimacy and understanding. It is termed as emotional unavailability.

Emotional availability, on the other hand, is essential for a healthy relationship. It means being willing to share your feelings, listen to your partner, and engage in open, honest communication. This openness builds trust, encourages a deeper connection, and helps both partners feel valued and supported.

Without emotional availability, a relationship can struggle with misunderstandings and unmet needs, ultimately affecting its stability and satisfaction, says Shahzeen Shivdasani, relationship expert and author. “Too often, people end up with partners who are emotionally unavailable, whether due to fear of vulnerability or a reluctance to commit. This can hamper their relationship in the long run,” she adds.

Shivdasani lists the following reasons why emotional availability is vital for a thriving relationship:

Builds trust: Emotional openness encourages transparency, a key element in building trust. When your partner shares their feelings and thoughts openly, it assures you that there are no hidden agendas or suppressed emotions, creating a solid foundation of trust in the relationship.

Words and actions align: You know you can trust when your partner’s actions consistently match their words. Emotional availability means being reliable and consistent, ensuring that what they say and do is in harmony. This reliability prevents confusion and helps in maintaining a strong, dependable relationship.

Conflicts are resolved: An emotionally available person addresses conflicts directly rather than avoiding them. By dealing with issues head-on, they help nurture and strengthen the relationship. Avoiding or ignoring problems reflects a lack of commitment, while facing them demonstrates a genuine investment in the relationship’s growth.

Supports your needs: A partner who is emotionally closed-off struggles to meet your needs because they are focused on their own. If you frequently feel your needs aren’t being met despite discussions, it’s often due to their inability to fully engage and support you. Emotional availability is important for fulfilling each other’s needs and responsibilities.

Avoids confusion: Emotionally unavailable people might express a desire for relationships but fail to truly engage. This lack of emotional investment can lead to confusion and frustration. Genuine relationships require both partners to be fully involved, not just offering the appearance of connection while keeping their emotions guarded.

first published: Aug 29, 2024 12:10 pm

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