Give a gift: The surprising emotional impact of giving without a reason

The power of gifting isn’t just about ticking off a social duty. It can heal old wounds, bring people closer, and even break ice in strained relationships (Image: Canva)

Gifting is more than a formality or a ritual. When emotions run deep and relationships are treasured, a thoughtful gift can speak volumes. Be it a Diwali hamper, a wedding present, or a simple bar of chocolate for no reason, the act of giving builds connections, strengthens bonds, and brings joy, not only to the receiver, but also to the giver. A gift, when chosen with love, carries an emotion that words often fail to express.

In a world becoming increasingly digital and rushed, a gift brings a touch of personal warmth. The power of gifting lies in the intent. A colleague remembered your birthday and gave you a handmade card, it may cost nothing, but it makes you feel seen. That’s the magic.

However, the power of gifting isn’t just about ticking off a social duty. It can heal old wounds, bring people closer, and even break ice in strained relationships. A father gifting his son a pen before his board exams, saying: Yeh lucky hai, carries generations of belief and blessings. In professional settings too, corporate gifting has evolved to include eco-friendly kits or wellness hampers that show employees and clients they are valued.

Sometimes, a surprise gift, without any occasion, can mean the most. It says: I thought of you, which in today’s world, is rare and beautiful.

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Here are 7 thoughtful reasons (not just occasions) to give a gift:

• To bookmark a moment: Gift someone a little something the day they achieve something small, like cooking their first full meal or completing a 10-day workout streak. It marks a personal win.

• To start a new ritual: Give a friend a quirky mug and say: From now, Saturday coffee catch-ups in this. It becomes a tradition, not just a present.

• To pause an argument: A small, humorous gift, like a stress ball or a truce chocolate can help diffuse tension with a smile before words do the work.

• To honour a forgotten version of them: Gift someone a token from a past passion, like sketchbooks for a friend who once loved drawing but gave it up. It's like saying: I remember who you were.

• To celebrate quiet strength: Gifting doesn’t always follow loud achievements. A comforting present after someone survives a tough week, heartbreak, or burnout quietly says: I see your strength.

• To say thank you for just being around: Sometimes, gifting without a reason can mean the most. A simple “just because” gesture can light up someone’s entire month.

• To leave behind a trail: Gift something meaningful in every city you visit or to every person you bond with, like a mini plant, postcard, or note. You’ll leave pieces of your story behind.