Reverse catfishing is the new craze in dating, using filtered photos is passé now

Reverse catfishing is gaining popularity as Gen Z and millennials no longer believe in impressing someone by appearing cooler. Rather, they want someone to love them for who they are, even at their lowest (Image: Pexels)

It seems millennials and Gen Z have moved beyond filtered photos and fancy feeds. Instead, they’re now using the opposite approach for a more authentic dating experience, something that has come to be known as ‘reverse catfishing.’

Traditional Catfishing vs Reverse Catfishing

Traditional catfishing is about appearing more attractive to the opposite sex on dating apps by uploading your best photos against aesthetic backdrops, answering questions to create a positive impression, and, most importantly, drafting the most charming bio for attention.

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Reverse catfishing, however, takes a contrasting approach. It is about downplaying your appeal to get attention. This is done by ditching filtered photos for unfiltered, unedited ones that may show your imperfections, doing away with picture-perfect backgrounds, skipping fancy cars or clothes, and using a basic bio.

Why is ‘Reverse Catfishing’ Gaining Traction?

Reverse catfishing is gaining popularity as Gen Z and millennials no longer believe in impressing someone by appearing cooler. Rather, they want someone to love them for who they are, even at their lowest. It’s about finding a match with genuine interest. It only helps that it comes at a time when many are tired of apps that require them to tactfully build a superfluous image.

Another reason is that it has taken the pressure off people to look perfect in the age of Instagram. They are now unbothered about the hassles of projecting an image and are more focused on attracting a partner who goes beyond surface appeal. It’s now more about forming a deep, meaningful connection with someone.

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Reverse Catfishing: A Double-Edged Sword?

As always, there are two sides to a coin, and with reverse catfishing, it is much the same. While downplaying one’s wealth or looks isn’t new for the rich and famous—they have done it for a long time to attract partners who are interested in who they really are, the downside of reverse catfishing may be the manipulation it comes with. It can heighten attraction if your date turns up looking better than you expect.

As for whether it’s authentic or manipulative, experts are divided. While it reflects self-assurance and maturity, traits increasingly valued over materialistic pleasures, it may also be seen by some as a dishonest approach.