Jennifer Lopez’s ex-husband Ojani Noa accuses her of cheating; calls out her 'victim card'

Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa

Jennifer Lopez’s former husband, Ojani Noa, has reignited controversy by accusing her of cheating during their short-lived marriage in the late 1990s. His allegations come after JLo's recent interview on The Howard Stern Show, where she spoke about her past relationships and claimed that she had “never truly been loved.”

During the interview, Jennifer Lopez candidly said, “It’s not that I’m not lovable, it’s that they’re not capable.” She went on to add, “They gave me what they had. They gave me all of it, every time. All the things I could ever want. But I never felt loved.”

Jennifer Lopez says her relationships failed because the men were not “capable” of loving her; after being engaged 6 times and married 4 times.

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Ojani Noa, who was married to Jennifer Lopez from 1997 to 1998, didn’t take kindly to her comments. Taking to Instagram, he shared a lengthy post criticising her for what he described as rewriting history. Calling her out for hypocrisy, Noa insisted that he had been faithful and supportive during their marriage. He further accused Jennifer Lopez of prioritising fame over their marriage.

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Noa concluded his post by demanding honesty from his ex-wife, saying, “Tell the truth for once. You should be embarrassed, ashamed of yourself.”

At the time of their split, Jennifer Lopez was rumoured to be romantically linked with Sean “Diddy” Combs, with whom she went on to have a high-profile relationship lasting three years. Ojani Noa had previously blamed Sean Combs for contributing to their divorce, claiming that problems began when JLo started working with him on her debut album On the 6.