Bollywood actor Bobby Deol has seen the highs and lows of the film industry. From being a heartthrob in the ’90s to facing a career slump, and then making a remarkable comeback, his journey is nothing short of inspirational. In a recent interview with India Today Digital, Bobby candidly spoke about his struggles, his willingness to ask for work, and his belief in perseverance.
Reflecting on his journey, Bobby shared, “Honestly, you never know when you’d make the mistakes again; you only work on yourself on becoming better at making them. Mistakes teach you a lot, and you cannot not make mistakes, no one is perfect.”
During his low phase, Bobby said he was not afraid to knock on doors and ask for opportunities.
Unlike many who shy away from acknowledging their struggles, he openly admitted to reaching out to filmmakers. “However, I did that too (ask for work). When I was going through a bad phase, maine logo ke darwaze khat khataaye hain and bola hai ki main Bobby Deol hoon aur mujhe kaam dijiye (I have knocked on doors and told them I am Bobby Deol, and please give me work). I don’t think there is anything wrong in that, as you need work.”
The actor said that every professional, especially in the entertainment industry, goes through ups and downs. “I mean desperate definitely, but I think it’s part of an actor’s journey and it hasn’t been just mine. I think every actor goes through that journey, and that’s part and parcel of this profession, as nothing stays forever.”
He also emphasized the importance of staying disciplined, focused, and never losing hope. “One must never give up hope and keep trying. I always encourage everyone that they also need to stay disciplined and respect their work; be focused and manifest.”
Bobby also discussed how the industry has evolved over the years. “Pehle zamana alag tha, jab shuruaat ki thi toh aisa nahi tha, pehle log khud aate the (It was different when I started out, as people would offer me work by themselves). Then the population of actors increased, it’s sad that we forget that there are so many people coming in, and will continue to.”
Acknowledging the growing competition, Bobby never let pride come in the way of his career. He understood that times had changed and that taking initiative was crucial. “At least they will remember that Bobby Deol had come to meet me. This also gets translated to work sometimes. So, there is nothing to be ashamed of.”
A strong believer in manifestation, Bobby encourages people to work hard and trust the process. He stated, “It’s not like baithe baithe sab mil jayega, one must work hard (You won’t get things by not trying). And with hard work, even if it seems far, you would be getting closer to your goal.”
Bobby also acknowledged the negativity that desperation can bring but stressed that overcoming it is part of the journey. “Desperation does bring negativity, but you go through that and come out. There is no one to help you swim through it. When you realize that, the journey becomes easier.”
When asked if he ever reflected on his past mistakes, Bobby admitted that he has learned a lot from experience. “There are times when people ask me what I would tell the young Bobby. Arey main kya bolu usko, wo thodi na samjhega jo main bol raha hoon usko (What do I say, he wouldn’t understand at that age what I am trying to tell him). You just have to learn with experience and life does teach you a lot.”
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