Quote of the Day by Nelson Mandela: "Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping ..."

Nelson Mandela Quote

Nelson Mandela, a man who had every reason to hold hatred in his heart, shared a piece of wisdom that can help anyone. He said, “Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.”

This simple picture holds a deep truth about how anger and bitterness truly work.

Imagine resentment as a bitter poison. When someone hurts us or treats us unfairly, it’s natural to feel angry. But when we hold onto that anger for days, months, or even years, it turns into resentment. We carry it with us, thinking about it over and over.

Mandela says that choosing to hold this resentment is like choosing to drink that poison yourself. You are the one swallowing the bitterness. You are the one letting it sit inside you.

The reason we drink this “poison” is because of a hidden hope. We think that by staying angry, we are somehow hurting the person who wronged us. We hope our bitterness will make them suffer or teach them a lesson.

But Mandela points out the painful truth: it doesn’t work that way. The person you resent may be living their life, completely unaware of the storm inside you. The poison isn’t affecting them. It is only affecting you—clouding your thoughts, stealing your peace, and weighing down your heart.

Nelson Mandela knew this from his own life. After spending 27 years in prison, he could have been filled with a desire for revenge. Instead, he chose to let go of resentment. He knew that if he held onto that poison, he would remain a prisoner of his own hatred, even after he was free.

Letting go of resentment is not about saying what happened was okay. It is not about forgetting. It is about choosing your own health and peace first. It is about pouring out the poison so you can heal.

It is deciding, “I will not drink this bitterness any longer. I will not let my pain from the past control my present.”

His message is clear: resentment is a trap. It hurts you far more than it hurts anyone else. The only way to truly win is to put the cup down and walk away, free from the poison that was never meant for you to carry.