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Bigg Boss 19 contestants Awez Darbar and Abhishek Bajaj highlight their experiences on heartbreaks

Abhishek Bajaj and Awez Darbar shed light on how to cope with heartbreaks and the importance of self improvement. They also share how one should engage in productive activities. 

February 04, 2026 / 10:33 IST
Abhishek Bajaj and Awez Darbar talk about heartbreaks
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  • Abhishek and Awez talk about handling heartbreak via self-growth and creativity.
  • Abhishek credits heartbreak for helping him develop as an actor and writer
  • Awez suggests traveling and engaging in creative activities for healing

Bigg Boss Season 19’s former contestants, Abhishek Bajaj and Awez Darbar, are some of those who share a true connection. The two contestants were a part of the same group on the reality show and have carried their bond even outside the house of the controversial series.

Awez and Abhishek recently had an exclusive conversation with Pinkvilla, discussing various facets of their lives—career, romance, heartbreaks, and more.

When questioned on handling heartbreaks, Abhishek replied, “You must occupy that emptiness with yourself. You need to begin engaging in activities that bring you joy. Aur yeh baar baar aapko karna hoga. You must continually remind yourself that you are sufficient."

Awez added, “Creative cheezein karo, isse aap ka time bhi waste nahi ho raha hai, aap apne upar kaam kar rahe ho aur saath hi healing bhi kar rahe ho. Sabse acchi cheez hai wo. Productive kaam karo, matlab bathroom mein shower lete hue rona ek baat hai, gaana lagakar sunte rehna, zoned out hona, galat kaam karna, isse behtar hai ki tum apne upar kaam karo."

(Engage in creative activities; instead of wasting time, you are simultaneously working on personal growth and healing. That is the greatest thing. Engage in meaningful activities; this doesn’t include shedding tears in the shower, listening to sad songs, being lost in thought, or making mistakes. It's preferable to focus on self-improvement.)

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Abhishek additionally disclosed that experiencing heartbreaks benefited him in his acting career. He mentioned, “I have developed as an actor due to heartbreak. Mujhe kabhi nahi pata tha ke main likhna bhi janta hoon. It took me 55 days to write a movie. Maine achhe se research kiya ki uske saat acts hote hain, pehle act mein kya hota hai, doosre mein kya. I have created the characters; I have composed everything. That signifies that instead of losing yourself, you ought to seek to discover yourself.”

Awez Darbar suggested that one should travel when facing difficult times in life. He expressed, “Aise mein safar karna chahiye. Since journeying restores you. You begin to acquire new knowledge when you observe others engaging in different activities.”

Shachi Tapiawala
first published: Feb 4, 2026 10:33 am

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