“Feels like betrayal…” 62-year-old Microsoft employee laid off after 20 years of service

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After nearly two decades of loyal service, 62-year-old Joe Friend, a former Microsoft director, found himself suddenly out of a job this May. What makes his story stand out is not just the years he gave to the tech giant, but the emotional weight of being let go at a stage in life when he had imagined a smooth path to retirement.

Friend, who led a team of nine as director of product management, told Business Insider that he first heard rumours about internal restructuring months before it happened. “I wasn’t entirely surprised by the layoffs. I was surprised to get caught up in them,” he said. When the news came, it wasn’t just him—14 others in his group, including four managers, were also shown the door.

His bond with Microsoft runs deep. Friend first joined the company back in 1994 as a lead program manager working on Microsoft Word. A few years later, he moved to Indonesia to work with an international NGO. In 2003, he returned to the US and, needing financial stability, rejoined Microsoft. For the next 14 years, he dedicated himself to the company before taking a break in 2017 due to burnout.

After a brief stint at Stack Overflow, Microsoft came calling again. “I was really impressed with what I saw as significant cultural change at the company and agreed to go back,” he recalled. Friend returned in 2018, feeling rejuvenated and confident about finishing his career there—ideally until he turned 65.

That plan, however, was cut short. The layoff, he says, “feels like a betrayal,” a sign that Microsoft had broken its unspoken promise of job security and reward for long-term loyalty.

While Friend admits he’s financially comfortable—his severance payout covered the rest of his year’s income—he’s not planning to jump back into another Big Tech role. “I’d rather earn $50,000 a year doing something I’m excited about,” he said.

Microsoft’s layoffs mirror a broader wave of restructuring across Silicon Valley. Tech giants like Google, Amazon, and Intel have also been trimming management layers as part of post-pandemic cost-cutting. But for veterans like Friend, the move highlights a new reality—loyalty, it seems, no longer guarantees security in the modern tech world.

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A 62-year-old Microsoft veteran, Joe Friend, shares his story of being laid off after 20 years at the company, calling it a “betrayal” and reflecting on how loyalty no longer ensures job security in Big Tech.

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