'We are proud of our history': Two brothers marry same woman in Himachal Pradesh. What is polyandry?

Polyandry, historically practised in the Trans-Giri region of Sirmaur and parts of Uttarakhand, involves multiple brothers sharing one wife.

In a rare public affirmation of an age-old tradition, two brothers from Himachal Pradesh's Sirmaur district recently married the same woman in a ceremony that brought renewed attention to the Hatti community's polyandrous customs.

According to The Tribune, the brothers—Pradeep Negi and Kapil Negi of Shillai village—were both wed to Sunita Chauhan, a woman from the nearby Kunhat village, in a multi-day ceremony that was held with full community participation and mutual consent.

The marriage, which followed the traditional practice of polyandry—locally known as Jodidaran or Draupadi Pratha—has long been a discreet custom within the Hatti community. However, this ceremony marked a rare occasion where the ritual was celebrated openly. It attracted considerable attention, not only for its cultural significance but also for the transparency and pride with which the participants approached it.

Polyandry, historically practised in the Trans-Giri region of Sirmaur and parts of Uttarakhand, involves multiple brothers sharing one wife. The custom was rooted in the need to maintain family unity, prevent the division of ancestral land, and ensure that no woman in the community remained widowed. Although this tradition continues among a few families, its prevalence has declined over the years due to societal shifts and the influence of modern values.

The elder of the two brothers, Pradeep, is employed with the Jal Shakti Department, while Kapil works in the hospitality industry overseas. Despite their geographical separation, the brothers stood united in spirit and commitment, participating equally in every aspect of the wedding rituals.

Speaking to the press, Pradeep remarked, “This was a mutual decision. It is about trust, caring and shared responsibility. We followed our custom openly because we are proud of our history.”

Kapil echoed this sentiment, stating, “We have always believed in transparency. I may reside overseas, but this marriage ensures support, security and affection for our wife as a united family.”

Their bride, Sunita Chauhan, also spoke candidly about her choice. “This was my choice. I was never pressured. I am aware of this tradition, and I selected it willingly. We made this pledge together, and I have faith in the bond we have built,” she said.

The three-day wedding attracted villagers and relatives from neighbouring areas, many of whom came to witness what has become an increasingly rare cultural event. Guests were served a variety of traditional Trans-Giri dishes, specially prepared for wedding celebrations, and the atmosphere was one of joy and festivity.

Attendees danced to Pahari folk music, sang traditional songs, and bestowed blessings upon the newly-wedded trio, offering their heartfelt wishes for a life of unity, love, and shared responsibility.