Man shares what his domestic help did after learning the concept of 'sick leave': 'She just messages and...'

Employee shares how his maid started using sick leaves. (AI-generated representative image)

In corporate offices across India, sick leave is a well-understood ritual, you feel unwell, you send a message to your manager, and you stay home. Simple enough. But what happens when that concept quietly slips out of the office and into a household kitchen? What happens when the person who mops your floors and washes your dishes starts playing by the very same rules that drive you mad at work?

A Reddit post from the Indian Workplace community has brought this question into focus after an employee shared an unexpected experience involving his domestic helper.

The user explained that the situation began when he was unwell and stayed home from work. His domestic helper noticed this and asked his mother why he had not gone to the office. The user explained, “Few days ago i was sick, so my maid asked my mother, why i didn't go to office and all? and somehow my mother said, ‘he is on sick leave’. To which she replied, ‘ye kya hota hai’ (What does that mean?), so my mother said, He is sick so he took leave.”

According to the post, this simple explanation introduced the concept of ‘sick leave’ to her for the first time. After that, the user said her behaviour changed in the way she informed about her own leave. He further wrote, “Now everytime my maid takes a leave she just messages my mom a day before that and the next day she'll be on sick leave.”

The user added that this pattern was repeated several times, with messages being sent in advance whenever she planned to take a day off. While some may see this as a structured way of communicating, the user said it began to bother him. He compared it to corporate workplace expectations, where employees are often asked to inform in advance even when illness is uncertain.

He went on to explain, “I saw that a few times on my mom’s phone, and it irritates me because it reminds me of those corporate rules where they say you must inform in advance if you are sick. How am I supposed to know that I will be sick tomorrow? And I wonder how my maid is figuring out that she is going to get sick tomorrow.”

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The post quickly drew attention from other users, who shared mixed reactions and personal experiences.

One user wrote, “I once showed my leave quota to my maid, and we gave her the same number of leaves every year. It was a perfect filter. The cook loved it, and she has been the best employee ever….It's funny how people don't want to extend the same courtesy to the domestic workers that they expect from their own employers, even if they can afford to.”

Another user focused on fairness and attitude, writing, “Break the trauma cycle guys, I know we want to pass on the frustration of how badly we are treated at work onto our maids. But please overcome that impulse and please treat her well, let her take sick leave how much ever she wants. Be kind. It’s her first time on earth too.”

A different perspective also emerged in the discussion. One user wrote, “I get why it’s annoying you… but this is actually kind of sweet if you look at it a little differently. She’s not trying to game the system or be illogical, she’s just trying to follow what she thinks is the “correct” way based on what she heard from your mom. In her mind “sick leave” probably just means “inform in advance when you’re taking a day off” because that’s the part that stood out to her. Sometimes it’s about simplifying it in a way that makes sense in her world.”

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