A WhatsApp message detailing a groom's extensive list of requirements for his prospective bride has gone viral, igniting widespread debate on social media. The list, which outlines the man's expectations regarding the bride’s physical appearance, household capabilities, and career choices, has drawn both criticism and support from online users.
The message, which was widely shared on various platforms, including X (formerly Twitter), specified that the groom is seeking a partner with a Body Mass Index (BMI) under 24, who is proficient in all household chores without assistance, and who viewed her job as optional. The groom, reportedly a PhD holder and gold medallist, faced backlash for what many consider outdated and unrealistic expectations.
Singer Chinmayi Sripaada brought the message to broader attention, posting it on X with the caption, “This is the exact List Of Requirements that a Groom sent to a prospective bride who is a Medico. Groom is a PhD and Gold Medallist apparently. LOL.”
The message begins with the groom’s expectations for the bride: “About bride - should be graceful, competent, and smart enough to handle her home and family matters. Should be vibrant and energetic to bring colour, variety and liveliness through her physical contribution in the family’s lifestyle, including food, clothing, and lifestyle. Ideal if she is within 24 BMI.”
The post has since amassed over four lakh views with users expressing a wide range of reactions. Some criticised the groom’s demands, questioning his mindset and labelling the expectations as unrealistic. Others, however, defended his right to be clear about what he wants in a partner.
One X user commented, “BMI is also mentioned, interesting. I would really like to see this groom’s photo somehow and see where he stands.” Another added, “They are entitled to have their preferences the way a bride’s family would be having (6 figure salary, stay separate from parents after marriage, etc).”
Others expressed concern about the feasibility of the groom’s expectations, with one user stating, “Seems very unrealistic and archaic. I don’t think any woman smart enough for his requirements would ever agree to this. Bro has to spend his life being single if he doesn’t change his mindset.”
In contrast, some users appreciated the groom’s honesty, arguing that people should not be judged for their preferences. “I kind of appreciate him, as he is clear in his mind—what he wants. There are tons of girls who like to be in this role, non-ambitious, homely, and taking care of home. As we shouldn’t judge independent women for their choice, we shouldn’t judge ones who choose to be homemakers.”
"Not surprising. Our mindset needs a complete overhaul," one user stated. Another user remarked, "What happens when unrealistic expectations meet unhinged delusions."
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