Sexual intimacy can be an integral part of many relationships, and how partners act while engaging in this activity can influence feelings of emotional closeness, trust and connection over the long term. Although what individuals find most annoying is unique to everyone, there are some habits that impact relationships negatively for pretty much everybody. Intimacy is more than just physical — it’s about communication, consent, safety and mutual comfort. The resulting experience is far more enjoyable for both partners; they feel valued and appreciated by the other.
Healthy sex is an awareness of boundaries, emotional signals and open communication. “Good sex is never just about technique—it’s more about trust, respect and being conscious of your partner’s comfort,” Dr Karishma Dev, an intimacy and relationship specialist in Mumbai, tells Moneycontrol. What you don’t do is as important as what you do. She shares some of her wisdom about connecting with maturity and conscious.
Miscommunications, presumptions or poor communication can result in an awkward time instead of a contented one. Steering clear of some habits may make the experience stronger, more respectful and more connected. And reflecting on what not to do can pave the way for a healthy sexual environment where both partners feel secure and valued.
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Never Ignore Consent or Boundaries
In every case, consent must be clear, continuous and agreed upon by both parties. If someone ignores boundaries, it may shatter trust and lead to emotional discomfort. A check-in guarantees that both partners feel safe, valued and connected.
Never Say Anything Nasty About Your Partner’s Bod
There is no quicker way to destroy someone’s confidence and intimacy than by attacking their body. Words like these tend to echo emotionally and can affect corresponding intimacy. Choose appreciation and love to grow the strong connection.
Don’t Pressure or Rush Your Partner
Sexuality is always going to be different for everyone in its rhythm and comfort. Patience also fosters trust and encourages emotional bonding.
Never Compare the one you love to someone else
Comparisons start the insecurity and resentment from scratch. They have the power to focus away from shared experience and sabotage emotional intimacy. It’s a way to celebrate what is unique about your partner and why he or she is special.
Don’t Use Your Phone (or Get Distracted)
Looking at your phone or tuning out seems rude and dismissive. It disrupts feelings of intimacy and closeness in intimate encounters. Noticing the small stuff says you’re serious and interested.
Never Ignore Emotional Cues
Intimacy entwines those expressions, comfort and mood. Ignoring signals could result in a misinterpretation or psychic discomfort. Paying attention fosters trust and strengthens intimacy.
Don’t See Sex as a Performance
When you try too hard to “perform,” it puts pressure on both of you. Intimacy is natural, not a performance or competition. Honesty and openness makes for a more satisfactory connection.
Disclaimer: This article, including health and fitness advice, only provides generic information. Don’t treat it as a substitute for qualified medical opinion. Always consult a specialist for specific health diagnosis.
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