What started as a simple question on Reddit has snowballed into a controversy on cultural norms with the country of Sweden at its centre. #Swedengate is a hashtag that emerged when Twitter learned that Swedes don’t always serve food to guests who are visiting their homes. Given that offering food to guests is considered a basic act of hospitality in many cultures, this particular aspect of Swedish tradition did not go down well with several Twitter users.
It all began with a question on AskReddit. "What's the weirdest thing you had to do at someone else's house because of their culture/religion?" a person asked. One response to the question became the start of what would later become known as ‘Swedengate.’
“I remember going to my Swedish friend’s house. And while we were playing in his room, his mom yelled that dinner was ready. And check this. He told me to WAIT in his room while they ate,” a Reddit user responded.
The response spread online like wildfire. Before long, other people were sharing their own tales of surprising interactions with Swedes and debating their apparent lack of hospitality. The debate gained traction on Twitter, where thousands of people weighed in on the issue, giving birth to the hashtag #Swedengate.
So do the Swedes really not feed their guests?
From the responses on Twitter and Reddit, it is clear that people from Sweden don’t always serve food to their guests, even children.
“The Swedish thinking goes like this: the other child (or the other family) may have plans for another kind of dinner, and you wouldn’t want to ruin the routine or preparations,” a Swede wrote in an op-ed published in The Independent.
“I don’t think it is anything to do with not wanting to feed the other child or because it costs money or anything like that, it’s more to do with tradition and wanting to eat with your own family.”
Swedes agreed.
“As a Swede I can confirm that we don’t automatically feed every kid that happen to be inside our home,” one person wrote on Twitter.
Nevertheless, the practice did start a raging debate on Twitter, where many were outraged by this apparent lack of hospitality while others contrasted it to cultures where it is considered impolite not to feed a guest.
Where do you stand on this debate?
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