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Feelings of love and loss, on Mothers' Day

Multiple sclerosis is a disease that affects the central nervous system. While low incidence in tropical countries like India is a blessing, it has also meant that the support system for patients and families is sorely lacking.

May 09, 2021 / 13:28 IST
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Magnetic resonance imaging or MRI scans can help neurologists diagnose multiple sclerosis. Representational image.
Magnetic resonance imaging or MRI scans can help neurologists diagnose multiple sclerosis. Representational image.

Multiple sclerosis (MS) is a debilitating condition of the central nervous system that is rare in tropical countries such as India. My mother died of the disease on December 16, 1996, at age 39. As I remember her on Mother’s Day (May 9 this year), I remember her illness too.

My mother grew up in Nagercoil, the biggest town in the Kanyakumari district of Tamil Nadu. Her first episode of MS occurred after my brother, four years younger than I, was born. Among the problems my mother faced was that she had no bladder control, and this often restricted her to the house. In the 1980s, adult diapers were hard to find in Nagercoil. My aunt, a doctor in the US, would ship them to us.

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MS is more common in women than in men - as with a lot of things about this disease, scientists don't know why yet. When my mother was suffering from the disease, less than one in 10,000 women had the disorder.

MS affects the sheath or protecting covering of the nerves, which starts to deteriorate as the disease progresses. There is no test for MS. All a patient can do is run a few tests that rule out other problems. Trained neurologists can diagnose MS, but families are often left to deal with the day-to-day havoc it wreaks on the patient's body.