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$19 bn for dirty jokes and silly pictures. Too much?

WhatsApp has become a desirable way to stay connected with each other in a discreet manner and through the phone, something that Facebook could never offer

February 20, 2014 / 18:28 IST
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Shashwat DCmoneycontrol.com

"Why are you still not there on WhatsApp?" is one of the most common queries I am asked at family functions that I so reluctantly attend. There's a tone of surprise, shock, disdain and piety, when the words are uttered, as if I am missing something very essential, say like a Gandhi cap at an AAP meeting. It so happens, that I am the only black sheep in the family, with almost all the members right from my aged dad-mom to my wife and my kid-sisters being active on the mobile messaging app. These WhatsApp-ers readily send each other selfies, recipes, children videos, movie reviews and all that over their smart phones. It has become to them, a desirable way to stay connected with each other in a discreet manner and through the phone, something that Facebook could never offer. After all, everything is for public consumption on Facebook, even when it is custom.

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The biggest reason why WhatsApp has a legion of followers is not really due to its no media, no ad feature but, because of its privacy and intimacy. Considering that it was often a one-on-one or few-to-few communication, chatters have few inhibitions or fewer worries. They could easily share a "non-veg" joke, chuckle at it, send risqué pictures, share crazy videos and enjoy it all in the privacy of their handset. Since there's no "wall", there is nothing that needs be posted or can be viewed by anyone peeping on your timeline. The sheer privacy of the app made it all the more appealing. Silliness was no longer frowned upon, neither was raucous candor, people could utter anything; share anything, and there was no fear of being judged. In that manner Facebook was a tad elitist in comparison.

Little wonder, people were moving in droves to the app, and becoming addicted to it. Leaving a few old-guards (like yours truly) who still stuck it out with Facebook, where a certain social etiquette had evolved that looked down upon people posting images of anniversary outings at KFC, or buying a new Titan watch and going ga-ga over it. Let's face it, "What's on your mind?" is a very probing question that makes you think, unlike say a WhatsApp or a We-Chat that has no pretensions of mind, body or soul. In that manner, Facebook had become a sort of Shyam Benegal movie, while WhatsApp and the others were like those Salman Khan blockbusters. And we all know which ones work and which don't in India.